I’m happy to see September, because August has been mean to me.
In fact, in the weirdness that is my head – I imagine Sigourney Weaver coming in in a giant robot-suit and saying to August THIS
September = official spring (even though the daffodils have been springing up and lambs appearing for weeks now) and my birthday in a few weeks.
I’m turning 40. Woo! Bring it on!
My late thirties have been very challenging in many ways, so I’m excited to start a new decade. However illusory ‘clean slates’ are, why not embrace them?
I heard a quotation by a Christian monk yesterday:
‘Sometimes the cure for exhaustion is not rest but wholeheartedness.’
This resonated with me, as for the last couple of years I have felt soooo tired. Not just ‘need a good sleep’ tired, but bone-weary, lacking in inspiration, I’ve lost my usual curiousity and sense of play in my creativity….. I thought I just needed more rest so I have scaled back and back and back what I do (although life is still full to the brim – how does that work??)….it doesn’t seem to have helped. I recognise this as ‘burn out’. However, mothers with young children don’t really get to have burn out, in that children still need caring for, housework still needs doing, meals need cooking. There must be ‘burned out’ mothers all over the globe who just keep on going. What choice do we have?
Hearing that quotation yesterday was like a bell ringing out in my chest…..waaaaaah, yes, too much scattered attention….too much compromise….just too much….
Something has to change.
All the time I am seeing more clearly what the changes are that I need to make!
If this all sounds a bit melancholy, it isn’t. I’m feeling pretty good.
Funny how if you won’t listen to your intuition, your body will often pack up in some way to send you the message more strongly…
Last week I hurt my back, badly enough that I couldn’t stand up straight and had to take a day off work to go to the doctor and osteopath…and a full week later it is still very painful…
SLOW THE HELL DOWN. PAY ATTENTION TO THE INFORMATION YOU ARE RECEIVING.
Okay! Okay! I get it.
Turns out I am not very good at not doing anything….even in pain and not much able to walk I went to work, made dinner, did the school-run…(on the other hand, nobody was telling me not to!)
Anyway, this was meant to just be a yay! I got through winter, almost intact!
Bring on the spring flowers, bring on paying attention, bring on my forties.