
(Above: resident garden Buddha at the bach I stayed in at Ōtaki.)
I’m back from my residency in Ōtaki.
How was it?
Well, all these things are true at once:
It was a wonderful experience. Parts of it were challenging. I got sick. Woke up sick on the first morning. A nasty dose of ‘flu – fevers, sweats, body aches, etc. I managed to do all of my public-facing things but I did not manage to sparkle. I’m a bit sad that I was a depleted version of myself when I was so keen to converse and connect. I was too sick to catch up with my local friends. The beach was stunning. The beach was my new best friend. The cottage I was housed in was wonderful. simple, sweet, one block from the beach. The organisers of the residency are warm, generous, kind people. Once my eyes stopped stinging and streaming, I read a lot. I did not manage to work on my manuscript…too ill to be generative or analytical. I did keep a journal about the whole experience so maybe there’s something in there? Or possibly it’s a load of feverish waffle. I can’t face looking at it right now but will crack it open when I’m all the way recovered and fully landed back in normal life. It was weird. It was confusing. It was perfect.
Does that give you a sense of how it went?
Aaah life, hey? Let’s get into today’s digest…
Some tools for the ‘pointy end’ of winter
Next week, I’ll be sharing an interview with you with Iona Winter about her new book, ‘Counter of Moons’ where we talk a bit about finding help when life gets overwhelming.
Here, from Pip Lincolne, all round sensible person and excellent advice giver, is
Ten ways to help a friend when they are sad or struggling
I know I go quiet when I’m feeling overwhelmed and I observe that many friends do, too.
Let’s try to be there for each other…even when it feels hard.
A recipe for a very weedy pie: ‘Hortopita’
Last week in Ōtaki, I chatted all things winter forage-able weeds with some lovely locals in the beautiful Ōtaki library. (We had planned to do a foraging walk in a near-by park, but rain stopped play so we talked weeds indoors in the warm and dry.)
In every season, something in nature is thriving, and winter is great for fresh, bright green greens, well-watered from all the rain. Here is a recipe which calls for 11 cups of weeds! It’s a wild weeds version of spanokopita, ‘Hortopita’.
What a great way to get a big dose of wild greens into your belly!
This week’s song: Song of the Siren by Tim Buckley
The first version of this song that I knew was the famous This Mortal Coil version. Somehow I totally missed the fact that it was a cover!
I stumbled over the original version via YouTube. At first it sounded so wrong to me…but after a few listens, I really like it.
I know the This Mortal Coil version so well, it’s sort of like I can hear both versions concurrently as I listen.
(I add one song each week to the Slow Small Media playlist over on Youtube. Here’s the whole playlist so far.)
This week’s poem
is by Therese Lloyd, from her 2018 book, The Facts
I think a lot about food as love and food as care because I’ve had 25 years of cooking for a family.
I like the simplicity and poignancy of this poem about a small moment of a food offering spurned.
(+ Lehndorf-trivia: I flatted with Therese when we were in our 20s. Back then we were part of a performance poetry group called ‘Poetry For Real’.)
By Sunday
You refused the grapefruit
I carefully prepared
Serrated knife is best
less tearing, less waste
To sever the flesh from the sinew
the chambers where God grew this fruit
the home of the sun, that is
A delicate shimmer of sugar
and perfect grapefruit sized bowl
and you said, no, God, no
I deflated a little
and was surprised by that
What do we do when we serve?
Offer little things
as stand-ins for ourselves
All of us here
women standing to attention
knives and love in our hands
Affordable art: original moka pot linoprint
We have a big espresso machine. F is a coffee aficionado and roasts our coffee. Coffee is a big part of our daily ritual.
When I got home F surprised me by telling me that while I was away he didn’t turn on the big noisy coffee beast and just made stove top for himself each morning.
Stove top is what we used to have before we had fancy espresso machines and it’s what we have when traveling.
There’s something so handsome about the classic Bialetti moka pot and it has so many warm associations for me.
So this week’s affordable art (so affordable! $30!) is this simple, charming linoprint of a moka pot by Waikato based maker ‘Stich and Whimsy’ on Felt.
(Above: photo of linoprint is borrowed from Felt.)
‘Tansy cakes, Fiddleheads & Sea Rocket’
I do love a deep dive into a very niche area of interest and that’s what this article by Faythe Levine is.
I’ve followed Faythe’s creative life since falling in love with her film ‘Handmade Nation’ 16 years ago! (I was part of that wave of renaissance of handmade things and used to make a bit of money selling at Indie Craft Fairs. It was a huge and exciting scene at the time. It’s hard to convey the unique vibe of those first fairs now but at the time they were very fresh and exciting.)
In the article, Faythe finds a very charming hand-illustrated book at a second hand shop and then follows her enamouredness into a research side-road.
The book she finds is charming, Faythe’s writing is so good, the whole premise is very entertaining.
‘The Candy Factory’ – a charming short film
I can’t find the words to express how beautiful this film is so just, please, trust me and watch it. (Content warning: heartbreak.)
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OK, that’s the digest for this week. Did you miss it last week? & If you’ve read or watched or listened to anything you think I might like, please share in the comments.
Last night I got my 100th subscriber on Substack which is so lovely. If you didn’t know, I write over there about permaculture, radical reciprocity, attempts to live in gift economy, voluntary simplicity, permaculture, foraging & more. I’m still finding my way there, to be honest…but trying not to apply feelings of urgency to things that don’t really need it.
This weekend I am going to:
continue getting better, clean! (house is looking a bit end-of-winter-ish), in the garden, all my rocket is ready at once so I might make a rocket pesto, read more of this book and I’ve been doing some Japanese-inspired visible mending of pants…so I might carry on with that. It’s slow work but looks so great.
Warmest weekendy wishes to you,
Helen x



















