somehow, ‘a forager’s life’ is two

On March 18 my book ‘A Forager’s Life’ turned two!

The two years since it emerged into the world have been, frankly, mad.

I’m a person who enjoys a slow, simple life and lots of huge (for me, anyway) and exciting things happened with the book since it’s release. In this space, I’m going to share some of the things that happened…even though they are old news in terms of the pace of the online world. They are still very much with me.

(Above: I threw a morning tea for the staff at my wonderful local bookshop, Bruce McKenzie Books on the day the books arrived in store, March 2023.)

I was unkind to myself and, freaking out about money once my book manuscript was delivered, started a new job before the book even came out. At the same time, my younger son who has a disability was finishing high school and in a massive phase of transition into post-school life. I had underestimated how intense of this phase would be for him, resulting in a high-pressured time where I was trying to enjoy the opportunities the book bought my way, learn and hold down a new job and be there for the kid. Oof.

It was all too much and, coupled with the NZ government’s slashes to disability support last year, I only lasted two years in the job before something had to give and I left it so I could adequately look after my boy.

Now I’m out the other side of the intense part of the booky fizz, the job debacle, am still navigating the kid’s shaky steps into adulthood (I guess I always will be), plus I’m in the midst of the intense mind/body/spirit shake up that is menopause.

I’m sitting here, a bit dishevelled, trying to put myself back together. It’s been a very strange time of immense, beautiful highs and difficult, fractious lows. (Then there’s everything going on in the world beyond my front door where the world appears to have gone completely mad.) Therefore, I’m hoping this winter is very boring and nesty so I can read mountains of books beside the fire and journal a lot (on paper and here) and let it all integrate into me at a pace I can cope with.

So, interspersed with posts about other things, there will be the occasional retrospective post my experiences with ‘Forager’s’.

I hope it’s interesting for you to read about such things from a writer’s perspective? As writers we are supposed to act very cool and nonchalant about the occasionally great things that can happen if you write something that people respond to…but I have never managed to be cool…I’m an awkward, nerdy, sensitive person who gets overwhelmed easily. I’m not at all nonchalant…I get very revved up about exciting things. In fact I get excited about non-exciting things, like the shape of a dried fennel seed head, finding a particularly niche-to-me second-hand book, or sampling from a pan of sun-ripened then slow roasted cherry tomatoes.

& I know blogging is long dead but (see above point about not being very cool) however I’m hoping if I write here, the right people will find me, despite claims that blogging and personal websites have been made irrelevant by speedy old social media and peoples’ diminishing attention spans. ‘The right people’ are folks who like reading longer form than an Instagram caption and appreciate the reedy, faint voice of a shaky woman trying to lure kindred people into giving their precious attention to her personal website rather than further furnishing the pockets of tech billionaires.

If that’s you, warmest of welcomes aboard.

(Do leave comments if you feel moved to. I read everything and promise to respond.)


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7 responses to “somehow, ‘a forager’s life’ is two”

  1. sytaffel Avatar

    Kia ora Helen, it’s always a joy to read your thoughtful, incisive and witty posts! I very much look forward to there being more of them, and appreciate them not being gated on a platform owned by a trillion dollar corporation.

    Nga mihi,

    Sy

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    1. helenlehndorf Avatar

      Sy! So lovely to hear from you.

      Thanks for those encouraging (and complimentary) words. It feels good to be sharing here again. It’s entirely counter to everything recommended for elevating your voice as a writer…so that makes me think it’s the write thing for me to do. 😉

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  2. daphnemoran Avatar

    Yay!! Thanks for this awesome post Helen. Love reading your writing. XX

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    1. helenlehndorf Avatar

      Aw, thanks, Pip. Love you ❤

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  3. Cally Brown Avatar
    Cally Brown

    For some unexplained reasonI wasn’t able to comment on your post so hope you get this:

    I’m not sure how / when I signed up to your emails, but am really > enjoying them. I mourn the loss of blogs as a thing, while acknowledging > that I have long given up on my own. I love the way blogs are more > considered and carefully crafted that a typical Facebook post. I just wish > blogger hadn’t messed with mine so that my old posts have reformatted and > left a higgledy-piggledy mess. Whatever, I am enjoying your writing, and > feeling at home in your space. Thank you for this small island to visit.

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    1. helenlehndorf Avatar

      Hey Cally! Thank you for that lovely comment. ❤ I ditched IG and FB at the turn of this year and it has been so good for my mental health and for my reading capacity. I’ve always been a big reader but am back to reading 1-2 books a week post social media detox. I think it is really important for us to try to take back our ‘content’, our brains, our thoughts, our brightness….from tech billionaire and AI and algorithms. It is no doubt a pointless gesture but so long as it feels right in the centre of me, that’s what’s important. I logged back into IG last week just to point people here…

      Thanks for the encouragement to keep going – I so appreciate it!

      x helen

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  4. ordinarygood Avatar

    I was really pleased to see you reappear on WP again just as I was deciding to reduce my social media platform “reading”/scrolling. Thank you, keep going!!

    Nga Mihi

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